better build it by self. WAMP - Windows, Apache, MySQL, PHP/Perl/Python as complite and configured additionally. I recommend using the basic settings for the same database, it is ideal out of the box and so in server mode and I also do not recommend using the web and game server on the same physical server.
Also we have full support for the latest revisions of MySQL. Recommended use last stable revision of MySQL and yes 8.1 full stable and you can use it safely